Girls grow up to be women who cannot say they have desire. They grow up to be women who silence themselves. They grow up to be women who cannot say what they really think. They grow up to be women who have turned pretense into an art form.
The problem with gender is that it prescribes how we should be rather than recognizing what we are.
Culture does not make people. People make culture.
A feminist is a man or a woman, who says: yes there’s a problem with gender and we must fix it; we must do better.